What would u do??

I know it will seem crazy but I think I feel something very special for someone. I started to talk to him not long ago, we chat only, but I want to go beyond that, I feel that he feels comfortable talking to me. He's 28 and I'm 24, he's mature, he's intelligent, funny. He's the guy I've always been looking for. I'm willing to do anything for him, I know it's too soon to talk like that, but I feel so good when I talk to him, it's so hard to explain. I'm scared though, I'm not a model, maybe I have a pretty face, but that is it. I have a very loose stomach, a lot of celllulite, I have some skin discolorations, in a few parts of my body. He seems so perfect, he's charming. But I'm very scared, I'm scared of being rejected, I'm scared of been told that I can't be with him because of the way my body looks. He only has a visa for 6 mths, but he says he could come back to canada any time. I'm also scared of him leaving and not coming back! Please HELP!





ONLY serious %26amp; mature answers please!

What would u do??
honestly, if you have been chatting for so long, im sure you have built up some sort of relationship that will help him see past what you consider your imperfections...beauty is in the eye of the beholder, dear, and personailty takes you so much farther in life...You have the upper hand, anyone can fall for a pretty face, and change thier mind once they get to know the real ditz, but he already holds you in high regard based on the real you, the beauty from within. dont fret, take a leap of faith. and if he inevitably rejects you, you are better off without him...good luck
Reply:You gotta keep on keeping on.
Reply:Go for it... you got nothing to lose.





if you go for it you got a 50/50 chance but if you dont then you will have no chance at all!!!
Reply:Honestly and seriously i dont think the relationship will last
Reply:NO FEAR!
Reply:just meet him he should like you for what you are in the inside remember nobodys perfect he may have some imperfections and is worried about what you would say good luck
Reply:i'd say go for it. if he really do love you, he wouldn't care about how you look. and btw, stop putting yourself down. i believe you look fine. take cares.
Reply:don't let fear keep you from taking a chance.....and you need to work out or do something to make you feel better about yourself not for a guy but for your self esteem...lots of luck
Reply:Just go for it. Kiss your fear on the mouth, and live. You can cower or you can try to get your man. You are probably overreacting anyway. Is he a supermodel?
Reply:i think that if u like him, u should tell him! worst case scenario he rejects u and u never see him again and u move on. i know thats hard and its happend to me but moving on isnt that bad. also, if he likes talking to u and likes ur personality he shouldnt care about how much cellulite u have lol. no ones perfect, its okay. he should like u for who u are. take a risk and tell him how u feel. u'll regret it if u dont. good luck!!!!
Reply:You have some major hang ups about your body image. Nobody is perfect, including this interest of yours. You have to embrace the great parts of yourself and be confident in that. Most people have celluliate. I'm overweight and on the flabby side... but I know I have piercing eyes, a warm heart, and am a great kisser! lol. You have to know how to sell the great parts of yourself so that the less desirable things aren't the notice.





When I first started dating the man who is now my husband, I actually had a gay guy walk up to me at a club and tell me he was too cute to be with me. I didn't even know this guy! A month later, my own mother made a similar comment... She said that she would expect Joe (the hubby) to be with my sister since my sister is more attractive than I am and because Joe is very attractive. I was flabbergasted! Not once had I ever questioned whether or not I was good enough for Joe. We had the most awesome conversations, had a huge physical chemistry, and just seemed to fit together from the beginning... I'm glad I didn't see things the way others were or I would have missed out on my soul mate!





So stop the negative self-talk! Build your confidence in the things you're good at. Think about them ahead of time so that you have your best assets in mind and are representing those instead of your anxieties.





Good luck!
Reply:first of all i want to say that you need to stop judging yourself so harshly. forget your external appearance and pay attention to the person YOU are. do you like yourself, meaning, do you like who you are and what you are and how you are. do you think you are a good person. if you answered yes to these questions then any decent man will see you for you.





with that said, given that you do seem to have low self esteem i would suggest that you be wary of any individual who is in your country on a visa. that person could very well be using you and your status as a citizen in your country.





best of wishes to you.
Reply:Well listen, it think that if someone cares about how big your stomache is, then they're just looking for a physical relationship...i mean he should like you for who you are, not what u look like..





And if that didn't help you, and your still self-concious. then start a workout plan. Yoga, for example.
Reply:just meet him neways you say he could be the one right?


so meet him, if you dont you'll always regret it and wonder what would have happend if you wouldve went.


i doubt he would not wanna be with you because your body


he obliviously likes ur personality and if he leaves because of how you look, hes an asshole anyways and not who you thought he was. start getting i betrer shape then if you feelinsecure.
Reply:Listen we only live once %26amp; everyone gets rejected! Tell him you like him =) And the body issue...listen...seriously no one is perfect. And if he likes you....then he likes you for YOU! All of you! All of your flaws %26amp; imperfections! He'll love em' in the end because it is YOU! If he doesn't like you "like that" then sorry about his luck for missing out on YOU! Be confidant in who you are! Go get him TIGER!
Reply:Instead of focusing on your insecurities, focus on a friendship with him. You have time, right? 6 months is plenty of time. I'm sure it won't even take that long.





If you like him so much, don't come off too strong right away, because he may still be trying to figure out how deep his feelings for you are. The strongest relationships start off as friendships.





But remember - Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game.