Say Something !!! Snif Pleeeeease!!???

I have guys who ask me out but i can't go out with them because i'm insecure about my body.


i have a severe skin discoloration and they can't see that. I'm so afraid of rejection that i've just never dared to say YES to a date.


People what do you think? men would you date or be embarrassed by a girl you date who has acanthosis nigricans??


just be honest please. at least I'll be able to know what to expect. thank you.

Say Something !!! Snif Pleeeeease!!???
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Reply:if a guy really likes you he will like you for who you are not your body!
Reply:if you like him then say yes. you should tell him after you get comfortable w. him. if he really likes you he wont care.
Reply:If all they think about is your body then are they really the sort of guy that you would want to date?
Reply:be more confident about yourself. if all the guy you date cares about is looks, then you shouldn't date him. what matters is what's in your head. ; )
Reply:You probably notice it much more than anyone else. You said "date" which to me means going out in public with them. Get to know the guy. Become friends. Talk to him. Take it one step at a time. The guy wouldn't have asked you out if he wasn't interested in you. Hopefully, the guy you choose to go out with won't be that shallow.





Life is too short.
Reply:You should be happ y with your self and if the guy likes you it will not matter to him. It is like that movie coming out with the girl with the pig nose she relizes that he should love you without what you look like but whats in your heart,.
Reply:sometimes you have to roll the dice and let them ride.....


Go out, have a good time. You'll cross that bridge when you come to it. If the dude doesnt understand, its his loss.
Reply:You need to realize that people will like you for who you are and not what you look like. If your a fun person to be around and like to laugh then people will naturally want to be around you.


You are doing yourself a disservice by not accepting these dates. Relax, stop worrying about your skin and what you look like.. i'm sure its hard and although you may or may not suffer from this all your life you should not and cannot hold yourself back from enjoying things.


Next time someone asks you out, accept it. I"m sure you will be super nervous but the faster you ACCEPT YOURSELF and learn to love who you are the faster you will get over this.
Reply:sry...i am not a guy...but i have something in common with you.





when i was way small i had this very bad injury...and it left me with scars for life.





and i am only 13 now...i am afriad that no guy in this earth would want to date me too.





though this might be useless, but i suggest you go out with some of the guys you favor...and if they really like you, they wouldn't care about the flaws you have.(%26lt;-which we all have...just different ones.)





=D Hope everything goes well.
Reply:Hey there,





If guys didn't like your appearance if they did not like what they saw then they wouldn't ask you out in the first place.





Love is more looks it goes deeper than the outer layer perhaps they like you for personality.





Give it a go and next time you are asked out just say yes





You never no it may just work out great. Once you have been out on a few dates it will get easier





Good Luck.
Reply:The guys who have asked you out are not bothered by the acanthosis nigricans or it is on an unexposed area so accept the dates! If a relationship evolves to the point of revealing the unexposed area give the guy a warning of what to expect. This may be difficult but you would need to overcome your insecurity as many who were born with a birthmark has done. I hope you are seeing a dermatologist and / or a doctor to receive good medical advice.


Good Luck, accept the dates and have fun. Be brave as well.
Reply:well am not a guy but I sure can help out here. Listen here, if guys are asking you out it means you are attractive and you don't have leprosy which is a more worst skin disease. Beside any guy that really likes you wouldn't mind if you your skin is is blue black.





Do you know your self esteem needs to be worked on. You need to learn how to think well of your self regardless of your skin discoloration or whatever. You are not just your skin,you have to know that. There are some very important qualities lurking within you that maybe you've not discovered and you sure need to know how awesome you are.





I suggest you stop degrading yourself and go out for a date. See, let me share a secret with you. People are attracted to who you are inside, not how you look
Reply:I would be more concerned about the underlying condition...obesity or diabetes. Don't expect guys to overlook health problems that you choose to ignore or don't want to deal with.